Networking lessons I learned from my dog
Networking is the latest trend in our society. Among lovers, entrepreneurs, professionals, and everyday people, to have a good network is an indicator of success.
We are all social animals and so is my dog, Kiki.
I have a very social dog. Here are some things she has taught me about how to be, as I say, “networkable.”
Lesson 1) It is very important to know someone well in order to become a real friend.
Our walks are always marked by quick stops to greet her furry friends and a quick sniff at their butts. By getting intimate with the other dogs she learns how friendly they are. By getting close she can quickly decide how well the friendship will work out in case she needs to run away as fast as she can. And, never look back.
Lesson 2) Never be intimidated.
Kiki is a small fluffy white cockapoo, who despite her size, never gets intimidated by the size of her peers or how loud their bark is. She loves the warmth of a happy wagging tail, to feel her fur rubbing against the other dogs, their close expressions creating a deeper connection. Kiki knows that you will never know your chances unless you really try it.
Lesson 3) Never be boring.
There are always interesting dogs and owners to sniff around our block. Sometimes we take a stretch to the park, where she competes for the tennis ball or the affection of an attractive tall Labrador. No matter who wins she is always up to having some fun together.
Lesson 4) Don’t gossip or pick fights.
Kiki never fights with anyone and is very well regarded in the neighborhood. She really avoids getting into gossip, as she knows once one dog barks, everyone else will join them. And of course it becomes loud. Kiki knows that it takes a lot to build a good reputation but seconds to destroy it.
Observing the dogs at the park, I can say some dogs are networking experts.
Lesson 5) It’s OK to feel a little down or frustrated when things don’t go as expected… for one minute or so.
It may be a ball lost in the field, a rejection from the attractive German Shepherd that lives next door, or perhaps, the nasty mean bitches that keep barking at her back… I can see on her furry face, how her eyes look down, her tail immediately hides between her legs and her floppy ears droop, almost touching the floor. But it doesn’t last long. Kiki allows herself to feel her sadness until the next ball, cookie, garden, child or better yet, Mommy (me) comes her way. She will stand up, wag her tail, and get ready for her new adventure.
What I love about dogs is their honesty. You always know what to expect from them and how they feel. If you are loving with your pet, you will mean the world to them and no one in the world will welcome you back home like they will. A pet’s love and friendship is forever and no matter where life takes you they will always be with you.
Like dogs sniffing butts, networkability has a lot to do with how well you understand other people, how open you are to new ideas and cultures, and how much you enjoy socializing.
That being said, I’m Ok with just shaking hands.
About the Author:
Ilana is a journalist and entrepreneur from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. She is passionate about helping people find their voices and pursue their dreams. It is never too late to start and never too early to change.
